Libertinism is a rich, delicate world, often surrounded by mystery. Libertine codes, although unwritten, establish a framework of expected behavior to ensure harmonious interactions. These unwritten rules rest on three essential pillars: respect, discretion and mutual consent. Every participant must respect the limits and desires of others, without ever exerting pressure. Communication is central: expressing your desires while listening to those of others helps create a balanced and sincere experience. Finally, discretion is essential to preserve everyone's privacy and peace of mind. By respecting these principles, libertinism becomes a safe and pleasant space where everyone can fully flourish.
Favor open communication: Clear, honest and transparent communication with your partners is essential. Discuss your desires, your limits and your expectations to prevent any misunderstanding.
Respect everyone's boundaries: Every individual has their own limits, which must be considered. If a "no" is expressed, it must be respected without insistence.
Prioritize safety: Protect yourself and protect others by using protection, and make sure every interaction respects the principles of consent.
Get informed before engaging: Take the time to familiarize yourself with the practices and codes of libertinism to avoid missteps and better understand this world.
Show kindness: Open-mindedness and mutual respect are essential. Be mindful of others' emotional well-being as well as your own.
Imposing your desires: Forcing or manipulating someone to get what they do not want is totally unacceptable.
Ignoring consent: Consent is a fundamental value. Every interaction must be freely and explicitly accepted by all parties involved.
Judging or criticizing: Libertinism is a space of freedom and non-judgment. Respect the choices, desires and practices of others, even if they differ from yours.
Breaking house rules: Libertine clubs or events often have specific rules. Respect them to ensure a pleasant atmosphere for everyone.
Giving in to pressure: Never take part in an activity that does not match your desires or values. Follow your own pace, regardless of outside expectations.
Neglecting hygiene and safety: Impeccable hygiene and safe practices are essential in libertinism. Take care of yourself and others by using appropriate protection and respecting hygiene standards. This helps build an atmosphere of trust and mutual respect.
Like any club, we provide condoms and lubricant to help you out if needed.
But please bring your own condoms if you can - ideally Skyn, for the comfort of the ladies.
Of course, condoms are mandatory outside of established couples.
Even on PrEP, you are not protected against syphilis, hepatitis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and more...
No.
We provide bath towels and sarongs.
No bathrobes - we find them, let's say, not very sexy. This isn't a spa retreat :)
If you prefer, you ARE WELCOME to bring your own towel or sarong.
But of course, NO swimsuits.
At Le Privé Toulouse, elegance, self-care and a libertine spirit are all part of the experience. We reserve the right to judge whether each outfit suits the club's atmosphere. Following these few guidelines will help you fit right in.
Daytime: A neat casual outfit or elegant office attire works perfectly, for both women and men.
Evening: a sexy libertine club outfit is required. Even if you're mainly there to enjoy the spa area, the evening dress code remains libertine, chic and confident.
For women: The idea is simple: dare to wear something you wouldn't wear for a regular dinner or a visit to the in-laws. Sexy dresses, refined lingerie, bodysuits, lace, vinyl, sheer fabrics, corsets, harnesses, garter belts, jumpsuits, fishnet, playful underwear... the possibilities are endless and suit every body type. What matters most is feeling beautiful, comfortable and confident.
Heels are appreciated but never required. Flat, feminine and dressy shoes are perfectly acceptable. However, sneakers, Converse, Doc Martens and casual or sporty-style shoes are not allowed in the evening.
For men: A well-groomed appearance is essential: hairstyle, tidy beard, clean outfit and a subtle fragrance make all the difference. We ask for elegant attire: a shirt or dressy polo, dress trousers, elegant chinos or jeans, and dress shoes or smart, fine sneakers. Overly casual, sporty or work-like outfits do not fit the spirit of the club.
For everyone, not admitted in the evening: work clothes and shoes, joggers, leggings, shorts, caps and headwear, sports sneakers, and clothing that is too plain or too casual.
Le Privé is a place of freedom, pleasure and elegance. The dress code contributes to the club's unique atmosphere and to everyone's experience being respected.